Meditation is a form of alternative medicine that promotes relaxing and mental calmness through the use of controlling or suspending thoughts for a certain period of time. Since meditation involves physical and mental relaxation, it's a great way to relieve stress.
When some people hear about meditation as a way to relieve stress, they laugh and think it's a bunch of baloney. They think that meditation is not a viable solution to eliminating stress. But research has shown that meditation works and is a practical technique for stress management.
The most notable research on meditation's usefulness in relieving stress was done in 1968 by Dr. Herbert Benson of Harvard University. He conducted a series of experiments on popular meditation techniques and published his findings in the book "The Relaxation Response." He discovered that meditation has a "real effect on reducing stress and controlling the fight-or-flight response." Dr. Benson wrote that meditation increased the skin's resistance to damage or infections, slowed the heartbeat and breathing rate, and reduced oxygen consumption.
Meditation is all about consciously relaxing your mind and body for a period of time. Meditation means that you need to focus inwardly so that your mind is basically so busy concentrating on breathing and body form that there's no time to think about the events that are causing you stress.
The act of meditation is actually quite simple to do. Meditation does not require you to be a mystic or to be very spiritual. Meditation is something that anyone can do almost anywhere.
Be sure to set aside a certain amount of time where you're guaranteed not to be interrupted when you prepare yourself for meditation. Meditation doesn't require hours of practicing at a time for it to be effective in reducing stress. Practicing meditation is ten- or twenty-minute time slots is definitely good enough.
Effective meditation requires that you're in a comfortable, quiet environment. This means that when you practice meditation, you should make sure that you're wearing comfortable, unrestrictive clothing. The atmosphere temperature (whether you're indoors or outdoors) should also be comfortable for you in order to make your meditation session as stress fighting as possible.
Stress-relieving meditation is all about concentration. Once you're fully comfortable (you can sit or lie down) close your eyes. Focus your attention of your breathing throughout your entire meditation session. Count your breaths. You can even say the numbers out loud to discourage your mind from wandering to other thoughts.
Another way to control wandering thoughts when you're in a meditation session is to use imagery. Imagery is very popular in meditation. Music is also a popular way to help mind concentration during meditation.
The key to meditation is mind control. When you learn to control your mind, you can control your thoughts, and you'll be able to better control the functions of your muscles. Sometimes it takes a bit of time to learn not to let your mind wander to other thoughts while you're in a meditation session. But once you've mastered meditation, you'll discover you'll be able to do it almost anywhere to relax when you're feeling overwhelmed with stress.
When some people hear about meditation as a way to relieve stress, they laugh and think it's a bunch of baloney. The most notable research on meditation's usefulness in relieving stress was done in 1968 by Dr. Herbert Benson of Harvard University. Meditation doesn't require hours of practicing at a time for it to be effective in reducing stress. The atmosphere temperature (whether you're indoors or outdoors) should also be comfortable for you in order to make your meditation session as stress fighting as possible.
Once you've mastered meditation, you'll discover you'll be able to do it almost anywhere to relax when you're feeling overwhelmed with stress.
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Saturday, May 31, 2014
Special vs. Extraordinary
Don’t
Sacrifice the Vital for the Trivial!
Are
you driven to be special? To be recognized for a special talent, accomplishment
or trait? Or just to be recognized for anything? Then here’s the question: Are
you pursuing specialness at the expense of what is more powerful, lasting and
true: extraordinariness?
There are 300 billion other stars in the
Milky Way galaxy. And 500 billion galaxies in the universe. Earth is an
incomprehensible speck. It’s less important than a single electron on planet
Earth.
How do we handle that insignificance?
Before Copernicus in the 16th
century, people believed the sun was the center of the universe. No rational
person can argue that now.
Our belief in that reality went beyond simply
not having enough information back then. I would argue that the problem resides
in our human brain.
The human brain’s mind is software. It’s
software used to organize the world and ensure its survival. To do that the mind is programmed to put itself
at the center of everything. Everything is about it — us!
Assuming that you don’t really risk
survival, what is the driving force of your software called your mind? When
you’ve had all the food you can eat and no one is threatening to eat you, what
is there to do with that powerful force called your mind?
The answer: Survival II. Your survival
programming causes your mind to use your considerable intelligence to find ways
to avoid the reality that we are not going
to survive life. One way to do that: feel special.
We are driven to be “better than,” to feel
significant because we are worthy of admiration. It almost seems as if we, as
individuals, as part of a gender, class, religion, race, species “need” to feel
special. And when we don’t feel special, we can get depressed and suffer with low
self-esteem. Or we get more aggressively driven to be special. Look around the
world and you’ll see just how aggressive that can get.
I admit, that is part of my motivation to
establish myself as a speaker, author and creator of a LifeClub model that I
hope will change the world.
Yet, it is oppressive to try to be special.
It’s a relentless, losing battle. Because in this vast universe, as one of billions
of other members of a species, we are not all that different. No talent or
accomplishment can ever be enough for us to avoid the stark and poignant
reality that we aren’t going to make it.
No one is really immune from the search for
specialness — whether it is to find specialness in our role as parents, in our
deeds, our accomplishments or in the characteristics we are born with. That is,
until we transcend our mind programming!
How do you transcend your mind’s
programming?
When you strengthen your higher brain,
which is your ability to be self-aware, over your lower brain, which is your
mind, you begin to transcend. That’s when amazing things happen. The
self-centric, anthropocentric way of analyzing data, of seeing the world,
changes.
That’s when extraordinary emerges.
“But hey, you just said we are only one in
billions of members of a species, on a small planet in an incomprehensible
vast, seemingly limitless universe. How do you find extraordinary there?”
By relooking at the facts. Realistically
and objectively look at what had to happen for you to be here. Here are a few data
points — none of which had to happen!:
·
The universe had to come into
existence from a void of nothingness.
·
Matter congealed and exploded
into trillions of stars.
·
On one remote galaxy, in its
protective outer band, exists one planet at just the perfect distance from its
star, with just the right nutrients and an abundance of a rare and unique molecule
called water.
·
Those nutrients and water had
to form into a replicable entity called life.
·
Life evolved via an
astronomical number of accidents into such complexity that it woke up and came
alive to know its own existence.
·
Your parents had to “meet.”
·
One sperm out of millions hit one egg out of hundreds.
·
And here you are. Born. Here.
Now. Alive. Experiencing this miraculousness of this moment.
You won a cosmic lottery.
It doesn’t matter how many humans are alive
or have been alive. It doesn’t matter how many other individuals of other
species are alive — whether one-celled organisms or other primates. Any living
thing faced astronomical odds to exist.
So, how insanely lucky are you to be a
human who knows you are alive? Who is able to feel the extraordinariness of
that knowing? It doesn’t matter how many
other people win a million dollars, you’d still be lucky to win it too.
And, to be born into this progressive, more
humane century, in a millennium ripe with possibilities…
Don’t bother working or stressing to be
special. It’s a terminal distraction! You are already extra-ordinary. Truly
extraordinary!
Learn
more about this at ZenBrainDoc.com.
Sunday, May 25, 2014
The Third Jewel of Life
People, who need people, are
the…well, actually, everyone!
The
missing ingredient to a life of happiness, wellbeing and Enlightenment is the
so-called “Third Jewel of Life”—community. Find out what this ancient structure
and practice looks like when professionally-engineered using 21st
century principles and practices.
Have you heard of the three jewels of
Buddhism: Buddha, Dharma and Sangha? These can also be thought of as the three
jewels of life. “Buddha” represents the highest experience humans are capable
of; Dharma, the path, the instructions to find your highest self; and Sangha,
the community, the people you will need to actualize the instructions so you
can find the highest experience of human existence.
This third jewel, the Sangha, is often
misunderstood and given short shrift. In PsychologyToday.com and elsewhere in
philosophy, mental health and wellness circles you’ll see lots written about
our highest potential, about, say, what happiness is. I’ve written a few blogs
on the subject myself. [links]
Then there’s lots and lots out there on how
to find this highest level of being human. From the right physical formula,
like why exercise is so critical or that perfect supplement. Of course,
cognitive psychology offers much on happiness, as do books on finding the ideal
relationship, living a moral life, bringing success into your life, finding
your passion, not to mention spiritual paths and exercises. Again, I’ve written
a book and have a website devoted to a wholistic version of these instructions.
There are lots and lots of instructions out
there. Lots. Tons. Volumes. (You get the point.) There is no shortage of ways
to tell people how to live and what to do to find the highest experience of
life. So why is the world so filled with stress and unhappiness? Why has it
been that way? Buddha, Jesus, Ghandi, scores
of other life masters from ancient to modern times have provided excellent
examples of the destination. Tomes have been written about how to get there.
Yet, it is fairly safe to say that most
people are not happy. Most people are stressed, frustrated by others,
disappointed in life, and depressed on whatever level they wish to admit it.
Rich or poor, young or old, man or woman, we all suffer life- no matter how
much surface luck we bring to the table.
The missing ingredient is this third jewel:
Sangha. Now, it is well-known that belonging to a close knit community is
highly correlated with wellness and happiness. Yet, close-knit communities are
not the answer to human strife. They have existed throughout human history. People
in them still struggle with life, meaning and happiness.
Sangha or “community” can be redefined and engineered
to the standards of 21st century thinking on wellness and human
potential. Such a modern Sangha would have several key elements.
First, there are the other members. This
includes countless other fellow journeyers on a similar path of evolution. Within
this larger group there must be a smaller group of intimates that are especially
connected. I don’t mean group therapy. Just a smaller group of fellow
journeyers who learn over time that supporting you and hearing your life
stories without judgment enriches them. They need to share their intimate
stories with you and the community to evolve themselves as well. A powerful
culture of kind, nonjudgmental attention needs to be created.
This is a kind of post-modern, intentional
“tribe.” Though it would be nice to form this with family and friends, usually
it is best formed with an intentional group of people there just for that
purpose. The tenets of communication, sharing and boundaries, the spirit of
that specifically engineered group, can then be taken back to your family and
friends so that they can relate in similar ways. Leading this “intentional tribe” is a trained
facilitator who knows how to nurture this experience.
In addition, this post-modern Sangha would
be led by professionals with expertise in human potential. Their role is to provide
a model for self-evolution, keeping everyone on-track towards their highest
selves. Other professionals with specific expertise in wellness would be
essential in teaching everyone how to create intense wellbeing. This would
include, for example, experts in physical, mental or social wellness as well as
the best ways to succeed in modern life.
For those inevitable times when you are
stuck or even ill, this 21st century vision would even include clinics
staffed with professionals who can provide more direct assistance—from health
care to financial, psychological, to consumer assistance.
There is a sea of self-help books and
programs out there. Yet, there is nothing like a wholistic, comprehensive and professionally-engineered
Sangha. It is the missing ingredient to most people’s happiness and wellbeing. The
21st century “third jewel of life.” Find it, create it, do whatever
it takes to join one, because that’s the channel, the conduit, to your highest
self. It is the wings on which you will soar to life at its highest.
For more information on Dr. Skolnick and
his SatoriWest LifeClubs go to SatoriWest.net/LifeClubs.
Thursday, March 27, 2014
Join us for a workshop at East West Bookshop this Saturday
Jeff is leading a workshop at East West
Bookshop this Saturday at 11am. Click the link below to learn more. We'd
love to see you there.
http://www.eastwestbookshop.com/events/6313
http://www.eastwestbookshop.com/events/6313
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Best Treatment For Depression: Retrain Your Brain to Stop Stress From Overpowering Your Life
The SatoriWest LifeClub was designed to help people change their lives. It can help you be happier, healthier, more at peace and grateful. Watch this 2 minute video to learn more about the benefits of being in a LifeClub.
The video above walked through the benefits of a LifeClub. If you are still wondering what it means to be part of a LifeClub, the video below offers an overview of what the SatoriWest LifeClub is.
The video above walked through the benefits of a LifeClub. If you are still wondering what it means to be part of a LifeClub, the video below offers an overview of what the SatoriWest LifeClub is.
Monday, February 17, 2014
Powerful Brain Exercises: Can Life be Perfect?
Can life be
perfect? Here’s some news: We’re all programmed to seek an ideal life, partner,
job, income, family…self, etc., etc.
It’s in our nature. So can we ever find perfection in any or all of those
things? Or are we destined to be frustrated? The answer may surprise you…
Let’s establish two very important points.
First, every one of us struggles throughout life — some more
than others. Even the one person on the planet who struggles the least still
faces significant challenges — a poignant struggle — just because they’re a
mortal human. It really isn’t easy being us…you!
Equally true, most humans are capable of living in blissful
peace and a natural high — feeling fulfilled each moment. That’s been known
since ancient times. Realizing this on some level, most of us yearn for the
life of which we can only dream.
So, how do you get from one end to the other, from the
distress that comes with being a human to the peak life of which people are
capable? To help you begin that
journey, let’s begin with this provocative question: Can life be perfect?
Most of you thinkers will immediately shake your head and
say, “Of course not. Nothing is perfect.” Or, “What does perfect even mean?
It’s not definable.”
Some of you more emotive readers will say, “Of course,
everything is just perfect the way it is.” You know, the ”it’s all good” folks.
(Of course, often that’s until is isn’t.)
To answer this crucial question, here are a few things you
should know.
First, people tend to equate ‘perfect’ with ‘ideal.’ I think
they’re different. ‘Ideal’ to me means that you have some preconceived
vision. That you are imagining an idyllic,
quintessential, stereotypical best life or thing. Those notions usually get
implanted into us from our childhood and popular culture, even though — dare I
say — we think they are our own.
Second, we are all — all of us — programmed to seek an ideal
life, the ideal mate, children, parents, childhood, vacation, future, job,
personality, outfit for the party…you get the idea.
Do those things exist?
No, actually. They’re only ideal in your mind. Some things may come
close: “Hey, I do look good” or “Wow, my kids are awesome.” But this usually
comes with a: “yes, but if only _____ were a bit more….”
Most of the time life, mates, children, parents, childhood,
the future….you, don’t even come
close to your hopes and expectations. We could all write a book on dashed hopes
and expectations. (That happens, by the way, even when things go “well” by all
accounts. Think about the unhappy lives of some rich and famous people.)
In other words, there is no ideal anything. Nothing in
reality can meet the high bar your mind can create. Which is why many of you
would answer my query with: “Absolutely not, life cannot be perfect.” And in a
sense, you’d be right.
However, ’perfect’ can mean something else. It can mean some
inherent, built-in quality that something has just because it exists. You can
see this the easiest when you’re truly in-love.
When you’re in-love with a person, place or thing, such as a
baby, a lover or a house, that helps you come closest to seeing its
“perfection.” You love “your old house” not in spite of the fact that it isn’t
modern or big, but because you see its quirks as having charm or warmth — maybe
loaded with memories. When you’re in-love, you appreciate the fact that your
lover has some body feature others wouldn’t find all that appealing. To you it
makes him or her “cute.” The baby’s pooping and peeing is adorable when you’re
in-love with it (a condition usually reserved for grandparents).
So, I ask you again, can life be perfect?
Yes, if you’re in-love with it! That’s the key to blissful peace and a natural high. To feeling
fulfilled each moment.
So, what does it take to experience life that way??? That
$64,000 dollar question has everything to do with how you align your brain!
If you want to begin realigning your brain, so you can find
the perfection in your life, I have a free
video series you can watch. It includes two deceptively simple, yet
powerful brain exercises. Find them at ZenBrainDoc.com.
Friday, January 24, 2014
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